Saturday 23 July 2016

GIRL ON GIRL HATE!!!

GIRL ON GIRL HATE

I'm sick and tired of this issue about girl on girl hate.
What do we gain by belittling someone of the same gender?
Do you want to know what we gain? I'll inform you. Nothing. Absolutely nothing!!
You're not impressing anyone by going to a party instead of reading a book.
You're not better than her because you have a bigger social circle
STOP IT!!! IT'S NOT WORTH IT
"Girls" compete with each other. "Women" empower each other.
Girl on girl hate is a huge issue in schools, at workplaces, in shops/malls, and even online and this doesn't make any sense at all because I feel that, as women, we should know how amazing other women can be.
You hate a girl just because you think she's prettier than you are?
Pretty? Society has set up some beauty standard levels, but that doesn't mean you should undermine yourself thinking you don't qualify for those standards. 
Girl, you're pretty, gorgeous, beautiful, etc. in your own way.
As girls, females, ladies, women and mothers, we need each other's advice not taunts, support and not criticism, motivation and not incitement, appreciation and not disparagement, acceptance and not rejection.
Spot a girl looking fabulous? Wearing a nice outfit? Achieving something? Doing something positive?
Walk up to her and congratulate her, compliment her instead of making her feel like she's in a competition with someone else.
It'd do both of you more good than harm.
Girls who can appreciate the "beauty" of other girls without hating on them stay winning!
S/O to all the beautiful women who don't need to degrade other women to validate themselves. Stay classy.
It's easy for us to bring out the worst in each other but we can change that for the better, together!

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